GRANDPARENTS!!!

As a parent we have now entered the realm of the almighty grandparents who know better "because they've raised ____ amount of kids" and who "have the right to let the kids get away with everything" because "your grandparents did this to you now it's my turn"!! Umm NO this is not how this works because WE are the parents. From time to time I have to throw the card out "I am his mother and I say what goes" because some people often forget this or rather they over look it. The point in this certain blog post is to help remind you / encourage you to not take any crap from anyone who tries this. My mother likes to say that "I am using her grandson against her" when this is not the case, it's the fact that I am his mother and I say who has the right to do anything with him. I am not going to stand by and let someone give my child the impression that he does not have to listen to the things that I have to say. This is not the case and will never be so. I pray that when I have grandchildren I do not resort to this because this sets me off very badly. PARENTS do not subside to this situation the longer you sit by and let it happen the more it's going to. Ladies do not let your mother in laws take all the control. ( I have no mother n law  because my husbands mother passed away, but my husbands step mom wouldn't dare do this) You are the boss and decider of what goes on. You have to be strong minded and strong hearted. Never let anyone make you feel like you can't say so over something like this. You are the boss ALWAYS remember that! (: 

Stand strong. Stand proud. Become strong.